A soulful form that asks real questions — about values, lifestyle, emotional habits, and the future you’re building.
🖋️ You tell us your truth.
With a blend of AI and human intuition,
we hand-match you with someone who fits — in goals, energy, and lifestyle.
💌 No random pairings here.
Matched? You’ll get a secret invite. Expect a cozy table, a delightful spread, drinks, dessert, warm conversation, and memorable experiences.
🍽️ Think less small talk, more real connection.
If there’s a spark, you’re free to keep in touch.
If not, let us know.
We believe in second chances. 🎲🤝
Your next great connection starts with a seat at the table ❤️
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Hi! We’re Secret Servings. We’re Lee and Dee — co-founders, creative romantics, and two women on a mission: to fix modern dating.
After the highs of long-term love, the lows of mismatched dates, the swiping, and the endless mixers… something was still missing: intentional connection. ✨
So we built Secret Servings: curated dining experiences for curious strangers, matched for chemistry, not algorithms. No swipes. Just great people, good food, and real conversation.
Born and raised in the UK, Lee moved to Malaysia, her motherland, after a decade in London’s marketing industry working with brands like PepsiCo, Disney, and HSBC. Dee works in advertising and brings a passion for crafting experiences that feels special and personalised. Together, we bring creativity, care, and people-smarts to every dinner table.
To the kindred spirits we’ve met, and the ones we haven’t yet, this one’s for you. 🫶
We’re not interested in swipes, bios, long-winded games, or superficial banter, and we don’t play Russian roulette by throwing together a bunch of random strangers. Secret Servings is a curated, in-person experience for people who want something deeper. We use a blend of AI and human intuition to match guests based on lifestyle, values, emotional patterns, and compatibility — not just hobbies or surface-level traits.
Each mixer is intentionally curated and intimate — a small group of intentionally-matched strangers, with one match tailored to you specifically. This allows for meaningful connection, deeper conversation, and a more relaxed, personal atmosphere.
Start by filling in our application form. If we believe you'd be a good fit for an upcoming dinner, you'll receive a personal invite with all the details. Every guest is handpicked based on emotional readiness, lifestyle, values, and the kind of connection they’re looking for.
We welcome anyone who’s kind, curious, emotionally available, and genuinely looking for meaningful connection. However, we don’t operate on a first-come, first-served basis. Each guest list is curated to ensure the best possible chemistry at the table.
Unlike other dating mixers, we’re open to all ages, from 21 years-old and above. No matter what age you are, you deserve to have a chance at finding connection. We’ll matchmake you with other age-appropriate candidates that share a similar mindset to yourself.
You’ll be welcomed into a beautiful, private dining space and introduced to other thoughtfully matched guests. Expect a home-cooked, family-style meal, icebreaker games, deep prompts, and soft lighting. It’s less small talk, more "why didn’t we meet sooner?"
All dinners are hosted in various venues in and around Kuala Lumpur.
Smart casual works best — think dinner-party comfortable, not corporate stiff. Wear something you feel good in.
Secret Servings is designed for solo guests only. That’s what makes the connections real — everyone is showing up with the same open mindset.
We don’t guarantee romantic matches — but we do guarantee thoughtful pairings, beautiful food, and an emotionally safe space to connect with others. Sometimes sparks fly. Sometimes new friendships form. Either way, it’s a meaningful night.
Yes — absolutely. If you don’t meet someone you connect with the first time, we'll continue to search for you. Many of our guests enjoy the experience and return for future dinners with new groups.
Amazing! We’ll leave that up to you. We encourage guests to follow up, stay in touch, and see where things go — whether it’s a slow burn, a friendship, or something more.
All guests are pre-vetted and selected through the application process. We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for disrespectful or inappropriate behaviour. Emotional safety is just as important as physical safety to us.
Yes — we need to cover food, drink, administration, and other miscellaneous costs. The fee includes a lovingly prepared food, dessert, drinks, curated guest matching, and the full experience — from atmosphere and experiences to conversation games. You just show up and be yourself. Ticket prices will be shown per event.
